May Newsletter/2018

Pastor MaryAnn's Message..........

         May is here, that went fast!  Doesn't it seem the older one gets, the faster the days go by?  Our Bible Study is going very fast.  We are going to be done in a couple of weeks.  We have learned so much!!  It is hard to believe it had 31 chapters.  Each week we explored and dug in our heels and held on tight for the ride of a life time.  Just what would we have done if we didn't stay for Bible study?  Watched TV or read a book?   I am so proud of all the attendees...Just about every week we had at least 10 and sometimes 12!  I am real excited for the men and women and what is to come of their lives, because they gave of their time and talents to help others.  All of us have questions and all of us tried to give answers to God's challenges in His Word.  For instance one time I couldn't remember a scripture detail.  I remember Peter denying Jesus 3 times, but I totally forgot that Jesus and he had an encounter after the denials?  I know I read it before because it is highlighted several times in my Bible.  But I just forgot. That gives me some time to study further into the subject...I love that about God, He is so good!  He catches our curiosity and before you know it is several hours later!  Forget about TV or a book, read THE BOOK and get connected to the Almighty!

     Our time may be going faster, but if you want to slow it down....sit down with His Word and relax in a comfortable chair and soak up as much as you can of His goodness.  You will be so glad you spent your time with Him!  There is nothing better!  Do you have time in your schedule for God this month?  Should we start another Bible Study?  Please let me know.  You're all in my prayers, love to all!

                                                                                                     ~  Just Soaking up His Word, Pastor MaryAnn

.....Heads Up!

    Bible Study will end, Wednesday, 16th.




May Connections......


Thought for the day......

"Magnificent, Outstanding, Tender, Honorable, Extraordinary, Remarkable, MOTHER."

  By Timothy Merrill

Dear Friends in Christ, 

Spring is now fully underway.  In some parts of the country, this means the occasional freak snowstorms, and everywhere else, we can expect a mix of heavy showers, warm sun and gusty winds.  Sort of like life at times, isn't it?  

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By Dr. Joshua Straub......."Focus on The Family"

     My first bicycle was my gateway to freedom.  I explored places all six-year-olds should be allowed to go.  I traveled as far as my imagination- and backyard-would take me.

     There was beauty in the freedom I had on my bicycle - until the day I realized how limited I was in the places I could go.  If I could just go beyond my backyard, I thought I could actually explore new places.  "Real" places.

     I'll never forget the day I tried it and nearly died.  Though rarely traveled, cars occasionally did drive in the alley behind our house.  With our garage situated at the bottom of the yard, it was nearly impossible to see an oncoming car before my tire hit the roadway.  At six years old, I didn't think about that.  I just went for it.

     The next thing I remember is staring directly into the grill of a car as we both came to a screeching halt.  The grill of that car serves as a metaphor for the life stressors and dangers our kids will all face.  Depending on our parenting tendency, there are four unhealthy messages we send our kids in moments like these.  The first two tendencies are parents who overprotect their kids.

1.   The Helicopter Parent sits in the backyard with the child to ensure he never comes face-to face with the grill of a car at all.  The message the child receives is, "Since you're the center of the Universe, I'll make sure you don't face challenges or get hurt.  When you do fall off of your bike though, I don't believe you'll be able to handle it on your own, so I'll be right there to rescue you."

2.  The Religious Parent  overprotects by shaming the child for not obeying the rules.  Instead of being treated as the center of the universe, the child is treated as the problem.  Rather than using the encounter with the grill of a car as a lesson, this parents adds insult to injury by shaming him about the incident and punishing him by taking the bike away for a month.  The message the child receives, "You can't make it on your own.  Left to yourself, you'll mess it up.  You need to learn to follow the rules."

     The other two parenting tendencies are parents who allow their kids to explore further than age appropriate, not protecting them, as they should.

1.  The Boss Parent allows his child to ride bikes, perhaps even bigger than he can handle for his age.  But when he meets the grill of the car he hears, "What were you thinking?  You know the rules.  Follow them, If you don't listen, one of these days you're going to get hit, and it'll be your fault.  You need to do better next time."

2.  The BFF Parent allows the child to bike wherever he wants through town because the backyard might limit his creativity or who he is to become.  When he meets the grill of the car in the alley, this parent is writing down every detail te child can remember about the car to hunt down the person who dared drive on that alley while her son was riding his bike.  The message the child receives is, "You can do it on your own, You're amazing.  When trouble comes, it's the world's fault, not yours.  We"ll rescue you."

     It is our responsibility as parents to help children build self-confidence, determination, and resiliency so they can tackle and overcome failures, not believe they are one.  

     The only way for kids to develop these skills is to face hardship, know we will be there to cheer them on (support), but not rescue them from or punish them because of life's natural consequences. (challenge).

     Loving our children means always acting for their best interest, which may or may not be the same as their happiness and comfort in the moment.