April Newsletter/2018

Pastor MaryAnn's Message..........

     April 1st, What a way to open a month,.....with Easter, the Rising of THE SON!

Luke 24:1-2  Very early in the morning the women took the spices they had prepared and went to the tomb.  They found the stone rolled away from the tomb, but when they entered, they did not find the body...

     Why were they looking for the body?  I think that today just like many years ago we are looking for the body when Christ is still not in the tomb!  He told us where He would be.  He has risen...He is Risen IN DEED, as we proclaim every Easter Sunrise service!  So, why look for Him there.  There is no place on earth where God, His Son, and even the Holy Spirit are not.  We can find Him by the sheer utterance of a word...Jesus!  He has no limitations to where he can be.  But the best place is in our hearts.

     It has been a pleasure to be your pastor for the past 10 years and I am proud of how many of you have come to know the Lord for maybe the first time or have reinvested your time and heart with the Lord like never before.  But we have a long way to go here at Hartford, Ohio!  Look at our friends, family members, and neighbors...Do they know Christ?  Do we know Christ for that matter...where are we looking for Christ today?  Do we still look for Him in the tomb?  Or are we celebrating the fact He has risen?

     We refuse to be seat warmers.  We are the church with a vision for Christ and His people!  We are his hands and feet in a broken world.  We are stepping out of our comfort zones and reaching out to His people!  I am so proud of the men and women who have said yes to evangelize with the Maundy Thursday Service...and those of you coming out to the "Night Out", the 21st...just to name a couple of things.  Jesus sees our hearts and knows what our desires are...hopefully He sees how our love just continues to grow towards Him.  So, this Easter season don't look for Him to be in the grave, because you won't find Him there!  Let our hearts prove it!  He has Risen...He has Risen In Deed!

                                                                                                     ~  With a Heart Deelpy Won, Pastor MaryAnn

.....Heads Up!

    Bible Study will resume Wednesday, April 11th...after Easter Sunday.

 

 


HOMETOUCH....A MINISTRY TO THE HOMEBOUND....

HT QUARTERLY-SPRING 2018......

Assitive technology helps the homebound stay independent.

    Doing something, "practical" for our homebound members...Some ideas  that will have them praising God!

  By Timothy Merrill

      Perhaps there is no greater desire among the elderly than the longing to be independent.  The elderly do not want to be dependent.  They've been independent from young adulthood to now.  Why would they enjoy lapsing into dependence?

     They don't.  Their irritation is especially noticeable during transition moments-for example, after a fall or hospitalization.  (Remainder of article is available in monthly newsletter.  Extra copies are available upon demand.  Please contact our office and we will gladly send one out to you.)

 

 

 


Four Unhealthy Messages we send to Our Kids, and the One They need to Hear

By Dr. Joshua Straub......."Focus on The Family"

     My first bicycle was my gateway to freedom.  I explored places all six-year-olds should be allowed to go.  I traveled as far as my imagination- and backyard-would take me.

     There was beauty in the freedom I had on my bicycle - until the day I realized how limited I was in the places I could go.  If I could just go beyond my backyard, I thought I could actually explore new places.  "Real" places.

     I'll never forget the day I tried it and nearly died.  Though rarely traveled, cars occasionally did drive in the alley behind our house.  With our garage situated at the bottom of the yard, it was nearly impossible to see an oncoming car before my tire hit the roadway.  At six years old, I didn't think about that.  I just went for it.

     The next thing I remember is staring directly into the grill of a car as we both came to a screeching halt.  The grill of that car serves as a metaphor for the life stressors and dangers our kids will all face.  Depending on our parenting tendency, there are four unhealthy messages we send our kids in moments like these.  The first two tendencies are parents who overprotect their kids.

1.   The Helicopter Parent sits in the backyard with the child to ensure he never comes face-to face with the grill of a car at all.  The message the child receives is, "Since you're the center of the Universe, I'll make sure you don't face challenges or get hurt.  When you do fall off of your bike though, I don't believe you'll be able to handle it on your own, so I'll be right there to rescue you."

2.  The Religious Parent  overprotects by shaming the child for not obeying the rules.  Instead of being treated as the center of the universe, the child is treated as the problem.  Rather than using the encounter with the grill of a car as a lesson, this parents adds insult to injury by shaming him about the incident and punishing him by taking the bike away for a month.  The message the child receives, "You can't make it on your own.  Left to yourself, you'll mess it up.  You need to learn to follow the rules."

     The other two parenting tendencies are parents who allow their kids to explore further than age appropriate, not protecting them, as they should.

1.  The Boss Parent allows his child to ride bikes, perhaps even bigger than he can handle for his age.  But when he meets the grill of the car he hears, "What were you thinking?  You know the rules.  Follow them, If you don't listen, one of these days you're going to get hit, and it'll be your fault.  You need to do better next time."

2.  The BFF Parent allows the child to bike wherever he wants through town because the backyard might limit his creativity or who he is to become.  When he meets the grill of the car in the alley, this parent is writing down every detail te child can remember about the car to hunt down the person who dared drive on that alley while her son was riding his bike.  The message the child receives is, "You can do it on your own, You're amazing.  When trouble comes, it's the world's fault, not yours.  We"ll rescue you."

     It is our responsibility as parents to help children build self-confidence, determination, and resiliency so they can tackle and overcome failures, not believe they are one.  

     The only way for kids to develop these skills is to face hardship, know we will be there to cheer them on (support), but not rescue them from or punish them because of life's natural consequences. (challenge).

     Loving our children means always acting for their best interest, which may or may not be the same as their happiness and comfort in the moment.